It's relatively easy to win an argument, as least compared to how hard it is to prove how true, how straight, how dependable and wise something is.
To embody something, on the other hand, to make it convincing, to reveal its inherent beauty, this is difficult and invaluable, it takes time and patience. You're going to appear to lose a lot of arguments while you are proving the trueness of what can be intellectually debunked in minutes.
Debunkers are a dime a dozen, esteemed and rewarded. Show don't tell. Don't be a debunker, be proof.